Saturday, March 10, 2012

I'm Still Here

I haven't been posting very much lately, but I wanted to let you all know I'm still here and doing OK. It's been a bit of an adjustment the past couple of weeks 'going to work' everyday. Then Cub got sick. Nothing major, but he needed his Mommy. Then Hubby was 'on vacation' from his regular job for a week. I loved having him around everyday,and in a much better mood too! It reminds me why I work so hard, and so many hours - so I can earn enough money that he can give up the job from that horrible place. Next week, I have DD2 home for March Break all week, and Cub will be home Thursday & Friday. Next Saturday is Cub's 4th birthday and we're going out for lunch.

I really struggled with the 'budget' for the new paycheque. I figured out how much I am getting paid every two weeks ($686.73) and how to break that down for the four piles of money. Every other week, I will be putting $70 into the Emergency Fund, $ 68.75 into Planned Spending/LTS, which leaves me $547.98 for Cash Flow. Out of the CF, $ 482.85 will go to pay rent which will leave me with a whopping $ 65 for everything else - groceries, fuel, bills, etc.

I have to be honest - this very first paycheque, I treated myself. I went clothes shopping. After I set aside all the amounts that I have to set aside, I went to Talize for some work shirts. Being the size that I am, most women's clothes don't really fit right, so I headed for the men's section. I bought 6 short sleeved shirts (collars and buttons down the front), 1 vest, and 1 long sleeved shirt. I also bought 2 work out videos on VHS and a CD for Hubby. I paid a total of $34.23 for all of it. Oh, how I love thrift stores! We also went to an outlet store this week to see if I could find a new suit for me. Well, I found 2 that fit reasonably well (the pants will have to be hemmed though) and looked decent. That store was having a 'sales event' so I paid $144.47 for two matching suit jackets and pants. Ouch! I don't regret it though, as the suits will likely last me for at least 3 years.

My stock up item for the week was bodywash. I hate running out of bodywash and I so dislike using soap. We typically only use Ivory Bodywash, because it doesn't leave a flowery scent on your skin which is important to Hubby because of his allergy to bee stings. Flowery scented stuff tends to attract bees, and he could very well die if he's stung a couple of times. I would rather not take the risk. I haven't seen that brand of bodywash on sale for a good price in a long time, so when I saw it itn the No Frills flyer for $2.99 for the 705 mL bottle, I knew I'd be buying several. I was going to buy 12 of them, but seeing as there was only 12 on the shelf, I only took 8. I don't want to be the 'shelf clearing' kind of buyer. I also managed to snag a good 'sale' on Pull-Ups this week for Cub. ( Good lord, isn't that kid potty-trained already?!) I had an email coupon from Shopper's for $10 off the purchase of $50 or more, and the larger packs of Pull-Ups were marked down from $27.99 to $19.99. I bought 3 ( after going to the 3rd store to find them), used my coupon and paid only $52.97. One of the stores that didn't have any on the shelves gave me a raincheck for two packs. The raincheck is good for 30 days, so its like extending the sale for me. :)

I'm hoping to get the paperwork together to file our taxes this week. I still have lots to do in that department, but with only DD2 home this week, I should be able to take a big chunk out of the preparatory work. Cross your fingers for me!

Today's agenda includes grocery shopping, laundry, making bread, and cleaning the kitchen. I don't know how much of that will get done, but I'm going to give it the old college try.

Enjoy your weekend everyone, and don't forget, clocks go forward one hour on Sunday.


  1. Glad to know everything is relatively ok. I loathed the pull up phase of potty training. I literally felt like they were piddling money away :-)

  2. Glad you're still around...I too haven't been posting much lately.

    I love Talize and Value Village...we buy most of our kids clothes there. I have a hard time finding clothes that fit me properly too. Apparently heavy women have really small chests cause blouses never fit me right! I am glad you're not regretting the suit purchase, I think that sometimes you have to pay a bit more for good quality base wardrobe pieces. You average that $145 out over three years and it's pennies!

  3. oh yeah, thanks for the reminder about putting the clocks ahead! I'm glad I have March break to get used to the change. Taliza is my go to place when I need a certain clothing item - much more choice and you can't beat the prices!

  4. Eboo, I'm glad to know all is well, and I remember the pull-up days... I'll say they were a blessing at night!

  5. We use the Ivory Bodywash here too. It's the only bodywash I like, and I try to stock up when I see it on sale too. I still have 2 bottles in my stash. I didn't see that No Frills had it on sale, but we don't have a No Frills near us anyway.

    Good luck with the potty training. If it's daytime training you're struggling with, I'd just bite the bullet and go to underwear, and deal with the soggy messes for a few weeks till he figures it all out. I think pull ups keep them too dry so they have a harder time making the association between peeing and getting wet.

    If it's only nighttime that you're using the pull ups (well, not YOU, I mean Cub!), just carry on... he'll get there when his body is ready... But I understand... they ARE expensive to buy and it will be a welcome relief (excuse the pun) when they aren't on your shopping list anymore!

  6. Good luck withg your taxes, hope you get a nice size refund back!!

  7. Glad you were able to find some good buys! I've never been to Talize, but I plan on taking the girls there soon for spring/summer clothes. I have to see what they need soon! Hope things settle down for you soon! :) Happy birthday to cub!

  8. Busy busy busy I see. Try not to overwork yourself and everything should be fine.

    You snagged some pretty good sales.